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April – Month Update

If you read my last post you will know that March was a difficult month and one that I was quite glad to see the back of. Although my Nan’s funeral was planned for the middle of April it was a much more positive month.

The day of the funeral was in a strange way, a really nice day. As my mum quoted from Dickens “It was the best of times, it was the worst of times”. Despite being terribly sad, and it sideways raining, it was really lovely to spend the day with all of my close family. We cried together, we laughed together and we ate the biggest Chinese take-away I had ever seen! At the end of the day I thought to myself, “Nan would have really enjoyed today” and that made me smile.

This was like a box of chocolates - there are two layers!

This was like a box of chocolates – there were two layers!

April started off with a bang when Jezz, myself and 3 friends went up to London to see Infected Mushroom at The Ministry of Sound on the 1st. We planned this quite a few months back. I last saw them about 8 years ago, and we have kept missing them since then so there was no way we were missing this one! We went with our friends Chris, Adam and Adam aka Number 2 (he did not like being called number two). The boys had decided that we would go VIP to make it extra special. My 14-year old self would have literally shit her pants at the knowledge that I was in the VIP section at The Ministry of Sound in London. It was ludicrously expensive, but amazing.

The VIP actually saved us I think, I was somewhat worried about the prospect of pulling an all-nighter (it’s been a while!) but it was great having a table to return too and somewhere to sit. It worked out perfectly for us, we had drinks, danced for 2 hours straight while Infected Mushroom played and then went back until they kicked us out.

I had the best time, it was awesome.

Group Shot! Out with the boys.

Group Shot!

We had two awesome road trips in April, for the first we popped over to Bristol for the weekend to see some of Jezz’s friends that he hadn’t seen in a couple of years. We had a brilliant time, we enjoyed the first BBQ of the year, had some drinks in the sunshine and then yet more drinks in a pub, then some more drinks at someone house. So drunk, so very very drunk. I had literally the worst hangover ever on the Sunday! But had a really great time. We are going to a festival in July with a few of them so super excited for that now. Woop!

I didn't take any photos in Bristol... here are some sausage rolls I made instead. They were lush.

I didn’t take any photos in Bristol… here are some sausage rolls I made instead. They were lush.

We also went on a trip up to Leeds to wish our brilliant friends Alex and Andy a fond farewell before they jet off on an epic adventure to South America. We embarked on a pub crawl all dressed as Mexicans. Our friends Toby and Lina that travelled up with us stayed with Alex and Andy at their flat, and Jezz and I stayed in a really nice hotel about ten minutes walk away. We had a really great weekend, on the Sunday we headed over to Tropical World (lord knows I love an animal related attractions – aquarium and zoos ALL OVER IT!), and had a nice evening just chilling out together and watching some TV.

Leeds Mexico Leaving Party   Amy Jezz AlexLeeds Mexico Leaving Party

We had all booked off the Monday so we didn’t have to rush back from Leeds hungover on Sunday. So we made a slow wonder back to the South via Ikea in Croyden. I shit you not, we spent 4 hours in there. I am pretty sure that Ikea steals hours from your life in the form of scented candles, flat pack, meatballs and all the storage my heart desires.

It was a really lovely weekend all in all.

Road Trip to Leeds

The Queen also turned 90 in April, and seeing that she is obviously such a massive fan of the blog, she wore an outfit to match our engagement cake. What a legend.

Who wore it best?

Who wore it best?

That was the exciting parts of April, we were lucky to have two marvellous adventures this month. I love going on car adventures, so excited to plan more for this year now we have a car! :)

HIVEDATE = The saga continues… I decided that my two culprits were either the biological washing liquid I had recently started using, or perhaps the new Dove body wash/body lotion. So I stopped using both and it seemed to clear up. HURRAH. No hurrah. On the Sunday of our adventure to Leeds I woke up super rashy and itchy. WAH. I have been taking anti-histamines since. It flares up for a few days, then I am okay again. I am keeping an eye on it. I would like to say that hopefully I will not have to write about the hives saga again, however seeing as I am typing this from May… I can tell you it will not be the last hivedate. Sigh….

Beginning the wedding planning!

I am terrible. I have got worse, but as I said in my last post, sorry it might happen a bit this year. January was NUTS. Pretty much every weekend was filled with grown up things and doing stuff and I have not had a chance to spend a days sat on the sofa in my pants.

Rubbish.

Trying to cheer up the dreary January weather

Trying to cheer up the dreary January weather

So the planning for the wedding has begun! Things are starting to move forward a little and while that still makes me feel a bit, “ARGH”, it also fills me with confidence. Last year I found myself getting a bit panicked because nothing was happening and there is just so much to do!

I always knew that there was a lot involved in wedding planning, but my goodness there is A LOT. So many things, and many of these things can’t be arranged until something else is done… and… well. My brain is already full of things.

We have now visited 5 venues. Without giving too much away, we arranged visits to a few different styles of location. Some manor houses, barns and one wild card. So we shall see. There are just so many in the area, and it is very overwhelming. Who knew you could get married in so many places?

We have decided that we do not want to get married in Brighton, we would like to go out of town. We live right in the centre and spend most days in the area, so both feel like it would be good to get away. Go somewhere new and exciting to celebrate. However, this also poses the problem of transport, and finding places that are not too far away for guests. Absolute minefield.

Anyway, it is so incredibly exciting, and is really starting to feel more real now. I could hardly sleep last night my brain was in overdrive thinking about the day, and the honeymoon, the dress, the shoes, the favours, the tea and coffee, the rings…. SO MUCH TO THINK ABOUT.

Hopefully soon we will have a venue, and I can start organising more of the little bits.  I may have already organised my shoes!

Happy New Year

We find ourselves here in 2016 and I cannot help but think… when the bloody hell did that happen?

Christmas 2015 Moustache

Christmas flew past, New Years shot past and now I am back at work having put on 3 stone in weight and trying to ignore the naughty leftover Christmas treats sitting at the end of my desk.
(Be gone with you box of celebrations).

Christmas Dinner 2015

I would like to resolve this year to be better at making blog posts, but as you can probably tell, I am not very good at this (or keeping resolutions). So I have decided to not put quite so much pressure on myself to post this year. I have so many draft posts sat waiting, that I never felt were quite up to scratch to post. Rather than filling my blog with hauls (my credit card breathes a sigh of relief) just so I can get up 2 posts a week, I am going to write, when I want… I feel a bit like a still need to find what suits me most with blogging. I do love it. I do love reading comments and hearing feedback. So I will continue, but for now, probably not every week. Maybe, I am going for a more informal blogging technique for now.

There is a wedding to plan this year. I cannot help but feel incredibly overwhelmed by this at the moment and totally out of my depth. A guest list has been made. An engagement party planned. A couple of visits arranged for the location. I guess headway is being made! But I still feel a bit like I do not know what I am doing, but then I remind myself that no bride probably knows what they are doing. They are all in this boat. I need to dial down my control-freak tendancies I think, and go with the flow. It won’t be fun if I panic, and more than anything we want it to be a fun day.

Anyway, long and short of it, I think 2016 is going to be a super exciting year, super busy but super exciting. I hope to use Amynoos as a platform to make note of my exciting planning adventures. So bear with me (as usual) this year, maybe less posts, but hopefully better ones.

Don’t worry, I will no doubt bore you with some hauls still 😛 Can’t leave my credit card too unloved!!

Christmas 2015 Champagne

I hope that 2016 is good for each and every one of you! I look forward to seeing what the new year brings for each of us.

Where have you gone?

I am here!!!

I have gone AWOL again and I am so so sorry. The last time we spoke (blogged? read? wrote? all of the above?) I had come back from Cambridge, got contacts and had just moved house. Life has been pretty much non-stop since then and I am not entirely sure where all the time has gone?

However we are now here, in November somehow…

So where have I been? So many things have happened! I moved in with Jezz, still currently a bit of a topsy turvy process. His brother was also living there for the first month, he recently moved out and work has commenced on getting the flat ship shape. Jezz’s mum and her partner are very kindly doing some work on the flat over the next two weeks so once that has done hopefully I can properly unpack. It took me nearly half an hour on Monday to find a Pyrex dish! (I was making toad in the hole, had to have the correct equipment!).

I turned 30 in October! I am not entirely sure that has sunk in…. I am not entirely sure that the fact I turned 21 ever sank in…

We celebrated by going to Portland, Dorset with some of my absolute faves for a holiday. I will write a proper post for that soon!

Also something incredibly exciting happened…. Jezz asked me to marry him!

Engagement Photo

I of course, said yes!

I am so excited to be marrying my best friend. I am so excited that he wants to marry me! I cannot wait to start planning our special day, and our future together. It freaks me out a bit, but in a really good way. I am very much on cloud-9 cuckoo-land right now!

Anyway, that is where we are at right now. As you can imagine I have been a little distracted.

Thank you, again, for bearing with me.

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